Funeral Etiquette
Knowing what to say and do at a funeral can feel uncertain. These simple guidelines help you show support to a grieving family.
Attending the service
Arrive a few minutes early, silence your phone, and dress in simple, respectful clothing unless the family asks for something different. Follow the lead of the family and the officiant during the service.
Attending the service
Arrive a few minutes early, silence your phone, and dress in simple, respectful clothing unless the family asks for something different. Follow the lead of the family and the officiant during the service.
What to say
A short, sincere message is enough. "I'm so sorry for your loss" or a favorite memory of the person means more than trying to find the perfect words. Listening matters as much as speaking.
Flowers, cards and staying in touch
Flowers, a card, or a donation to a cause the family names are all thoughtful ways to show you care. Grief continues long after the service, so a call or visit in the weeks that follow is often the most welcome gesture of all.
